Assesment-Parenting

Parenting Assesment

My partner and I work well together as a parental team.

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I feel deeply connected with my child.

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I allow my child to appropriately experience the results of his/her choices without rescuing them or hanging it over their head.

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I parent out of trust rather than fear.

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I discipline out of love rather than punish out of anger.

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My child and I communicate clearly and with intention.

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I respond rather than react.

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I allow my child to make mistakes as they are often the best teachers.

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I am complete in who I am and do not look to my child to complete anything in me.

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I do not allow myself to get hooked into arguments.

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I can listen to my child without judgment.

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I trust my child.

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I allow my child the freedom to be him/herself.

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I set appropriate perimeters so my child can safely develop.

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I see each of my children as special individuals and parent them according to their individuality.

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I have and show unconditional love for my child.

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I never shame my child.

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I can separate the behavior from the person my child is.

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My child feels safe with me and confides in me.

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I have laid, or am laying, a good foundation for my child.

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I am a very good role model for my own child.

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I practice what I teach (as I don�t have the need to preach).

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I am consciously and intentionally preparing my child for adulthood.

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I fully understand my role as a parent.

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I regularly spend quality time with my child.

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Parenting makes me feel energized.

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I do not ignore, reject, or over-protect my child.

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I am not reinforcing performance orientation in my child.

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My parenting style builds my child�s self-esteem.

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I am always seeking out ways to improve my parenting skills.

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I teach my child that it is okay to feel a wide range of emotions.

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I allow my child to be appropriately angry with me.

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Disclaimer: This assessment is in no way meant for diagnostic purposes. It is simply a self scoring tool to help you identify areas you might choose to develop or patterns you might choose to change in your life. It could also indicate your need for a coach.

[Scott] educated me on new parenting skills which have restored peace to our house. He renewed my sense of purpose as a parent."

—Sarah