Assesment-Marriage Contentment

Marriage Contentment Assesment

My marriage is fulfilling for both me and my partner.

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My partner and I support each other fully.

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We operate from a win-win scenario.

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My partner and I are two whole individuals who have come together as one not to complete each other, but to compliment each other.

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My marriage is a good model for my children.

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Our marriage is not vulnerable to an affair.

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We are free from sexual vices or struggles.

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Our sexual relationship is mutually satisfying and fulfilling.

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We act in ways that are respectful towards each other.

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I can maintain my own since of who I am and be okay even when my partner is having a difficult time.

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We communicate fully and with intention regularly.

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I can set aside my own feelings and be understanding of my partner�s feelings even if it is about me.

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We are partners in our finances and agree about how they are to be handled.

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We each assume responsibility for our own behavior, choices and feelings and not for that of our partner.

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We respond rather than emotionally react.

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We can disagree and still be okay.

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We fully trust each other.

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We function as a great team.

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My partner is my greatest ally.

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We both feel loved and cared for.

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Our marriage is a safe place to be ourselves.

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We appreciate each other.

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Our relationship is growing and developing.

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We are attracted to each other.

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We know each other well.

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We enjoy each others differences as much as we do our sameness.

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We can share fully with each other without holding back.

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We are protective of each other.

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We live in the present never hold the past against each other.

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We enjoy a weekly date night together.

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We consistently use �I� statements in order to avoid attacking or accusing.

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There is no competition within our marriage, we fully support one another.

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We are considerate of each others feelings and needs.

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We don�t attempt to change each other.

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We do not harbor resentments and bitterness.

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We can completely trust each other.

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We are each other�s best friends.

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We don�t question whether getting married was a mistake.

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Disclaimer: This assessment is in no way meant for diagnostic purposes. It is simply a self scoring tool to help you identify areas you might choose to develop or patterns you might choose to change in your life. It could also indicate your need for a coach.

If your marriage could be all that you desire it to be, what would that look like for you?"

—Scott & Sandy Tremp